In some ways, Leigh Nolan was like other young women her
age. She liked reading and soap operas and country music. She had a job. She
loved her family. But in other ways, Leigh’s life was different, and it had
been from the very start.
She was born in 1971 with serious birth defects that left her spine open and
prevented fluids from draining from her brain. During the first few days of
her life, doctors didn’t know whether she would live or die.
“That first week everyone was focused simply on saving her life,”
said Charlie Nolan, Leigh’s father and now a retired U.S. military officer.
“Sometimes during that week Judy and I would ask what her life would be
like if she survived, and no one could really give us much of an answer.
“We didn’t know if she would live, and if she did live, we didn’t know if
she would have a life that would be worth living.”
Some people born with spina bifida and hydrocephalus do not survive. Those
who do can suffer from full paralysis, mental retardation and a host of
other problems.
Leigh survived and grew. She was luckier than some and unluckier than
others. She was paralyzed from the waist down, but she could get around in a
wheelchair. She was challenged by some learning disabilities, but she was
not retarded.
Charlie and Judy Nolan’s question about the quality of their daughter’s
existence was answered fairly early in Leigh’s life.
“Leigh turned out to be a happy and a courageous young lady,” her father
said. “She always had a smile on her face. She lived each day to the fullest
and she had a very happy life.”
It was UPARC, the Upper Pinellas Association for Retarded Citizens, that
helped Leigh Nolan realize her dream of getting a job and working toward
independence. UPARC put Leigh in touch with a marketing company in
Clearwater. They hired her, and she had just successfully completed her
six-month probationary period and had just become a permanent employee when
tragedy struck. A shunt that had been installed to drain fluid from around
her brain malfunctioned unexpectedly. That led to complications that claimed
her life after 23 days in intensive care. Leigh died January 18, 1999 at the
age of 27.
“We held her hand until we lost her.” Charlie said.
“It was the
worst night of our lives.”
“Leigh’s one goal in life was to get a job and be independent.”
Charlie said. Leigh’s job at the marketing company involved assembling gift
packages and getting them ready for shipment. She was proud of her
accomplishments, and her employer valued her as an employee. “I think
what
she ultimately wanted was to be just like everyone else,” said Charlie
Nolan. “We believe she achieved her goal.”
About a year after Leigh’s death, Charlie had an idea. Maybe fellow
motorcyclists would be interested in organizing a poker run to benefit
UPARC. The idea took off in a major way and has been expanded to culminate
in a major day-long event held on the first Sunday in November each year.
Event day attracts several thousand attendees. 100% of the corporate and
private donations that are raised are given to the UPARC Foundation in order
to help assure the continuation of the good work and hope that the
organization provides to so many in the Pinellas County community.
It is to the memory of Leigh Nolan that this event is dedicated.